Category - Parenting Skills
For Parents of Children who Suffer from Anxiety….
The start of the school year may strike fear and panic in their heart. Back to school rituals like shopping for school supplies or for new school clothes illicit scenes of tantrums and tears. While you are focusing on helping your child calm their fears and adjust to the year ahead, it is also important to focus on your own self-care. Easier said than done you say. No question about it! However, while it takes some effort the following suggestions will help ease the transition not only for your child but for you as well: 1) Prepare in advance:… Continue Reading
Potty Learning Power Struggles: Being a Good Coach
Learning to use the potty can be a frustrating experience for both child and parent. The child may want to succeed, but the process can be delayed by a variety of developmental and environmental factors. One of the best ways to support your child as they learn to master this developmental step is to be a good coach. Potty learning is a new skill. Parents have to remember what it’s like to learn something new: an instrument, a second language, a new sport. New skills develop over time, with the encouragement and support of a great teacher. Lets look at… Continue Reading
It is common for young children to prefer one parent to the other. This preference can be attributed to a variety of factors, both genetic and environmental, including temperament similarities between parent and child, spending more time with one parent, or big events going on in the family, such as the birth of a new sibling. It can also be about a child’s need to test whether or not he has control over who takes care of him and gives him attention. Temperament similarities can be both beneficial and challenging for the parent-child relationship. For example, an introverted parent and… Continue Reading
Kids Don’t Come with Instruction Manuals
There’s no shortage of media outlets warning parents that what they’re doing is wrong. From provocative magazine covers espousing the dangers of attachment parenting to newspaper coverage of psychopathic 9-year olds, mainstream media profits from parental fear and self-doubt. What’s missing from these water-cooler discussions is the basic fact that kids don’t come with instruction manuals. Parenting is a life-long process: an art, a learned skill, and a science. The early years are the laboratory years. Which parenting tools work with your particular child? Does she share your worldview, or does she think like your mom-in-law? Why did my first… Continue Reading